Ran into Mary in the parking lot and she went off about the ex again. She told him not to talk to her, but then wants to talk. She keeps sending texts so he knows she is upset with him. Also, he has a 15-year-old son. She waved him down yesterday and as I walked up to tell her I was leaving (she had told me to wait), she was telling his SON that she loved his dad and could he ask him to not be so hard on her......Uh oh. Now, I am not a child with divorced parents, but I have many friends who are. They all tell me this. You are NOT in a relationship with the kids. You don't need to ignore them, but by all means, DO NOT involve them in your personal issues.
Last night, the police knock on her door. The officer inquires about her not leaving her ex's door when he would not answer. She apparently walked over and kept knocking asking him to talk to her. (Yikes!) So she says "How would you feel if you loved someone and they would not talk to you?" ---Why would you say that to an officer? And why don't people let the cops in to talk to them rather than discussing personal issues in hallways? (Never understood that one.)
Anyway, whether this is psycho behavior or typical female break-up hysterics, you can decide.
Moving on. Thanks for the support. Even though I let X have it straight with no sugar coating, I think that he may have finally gotten it. I just didn't want to go right back to where we started. (I still even let the "I broke up with you because.." comments slide. Really, does his ego need that much of a lift?) Mom, I'm trying to be nice, buy you know my history....... The only reason I still talk to him is because of mutual friends. I think they are getting married in the next year, and there is a possibility that we will both be in the wedding party. I can be civil for Hannah's sake. (As long as he quits calling at odd hours.)
Must get back to work. I can't seem to find my groove this week, so I keep getting farther behind. (Plus, a coworker went into labor early, so there is more work!! ) Two weeks early and he still weighed 7lbs 11oz. Here's a happy pic for you all to enjoy!
Grant Alexander
4 comments:
Jacqniel, he is not up because he's needy he's up because he's a garbage man (for real). But a good garbage man- my sister told me he did a good job. I'LL STOP NOW, STACEY.
Oh no, I think he is needy, too. I also don't think that your mutual friends will care if you and he aren't still friends when they do get married. Just because you are both possibly in their wedding doesn't mean you have to be buddy-buddy. I say stop answering his calls, unless you are truely doing it for your own entertainment, which I can totally relate to!! LOL!!
It seems as though there are these crazies everywhere, doesn't it?!?! What would life be like without the tutu man? LMAO!!!
Sorry I have been so out of touch. Seems as though there has just been more and more stuff piling on here and I never get online to check everyone out! Will tell more later!!
~~HUGS!!~~
A garbage man. Interesting!
Sounds like Mary is a bit on the crazy side. Don't get her on YOUR bad side!
The baby's pic is precious.
I just love those babies. Ooooo, love the babies. Thanks for sharing the pic.
:-)
Love that the commenters are starting to pop up. Your blog is keeping us all in the loop! (crazy loop that it may be).
I'll spare you any X advice, I was lucky to have zero mutual friends with my big X, which probably saved me from many uncomfortable moments where I would have handled myself horribly.
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